Are you a female stripper and dating a jealous boyfriend? Its extremely difficult to date someone serious as open minded as your are. Open minded because lot of people don't understand that this profession is only to get you from point A to B in life. Its amazing money and you work only on weekends. Which gives u an advantage to focus on school or other things in life.
Your boyfriend has the absolute right to be jealous if you started dancing when you were already dating him or if he had no idea you were a dancer until the middle of your relationship. If you were honest with him from the beginning and he signed up to be your boy knowing that you are a stripper than he has no right to give you hard time about it.
 Keep in mind that alot of people find it exciting to hook up with someone that everyone desperately wants but can't have (the strippers). If that makes sense those people (the strippers) are called "hired guns" and hooking up with a hired gun by many is considered cool. The problem is that it's a short term thing, it never leads to anything due to the circumstances of hooking up that way. That means that your hook up was purely out of attraction, personal characteristics were not involved.
The advise is, show him the positive things in you and the positive things he can expect in your relationship, such as your getting your degree in school, finding a good job, and quiting dancing.